The man of integrity, Dr.APJ Abdul Kalam

(The review and application of biography of Dr.APJ Abdul Kalam in respect to Motivation,Value, Ethics))

Introduction

It is rare to be born as a human being,
It is still rarer to be born without any deformity.
Even if you are born without any deformity,
It is rare to acquire knowledge and education.
Even if one could acquire knowledge and education,
It is still rare to offer service to the mankind and contemplate on the higher self.
If one leads such a selfless divine life,
The gates of heaven open to greet such an evolved soul.”

This one of the poems that Dr.Kalam gifted to the people.  He is one of the such a leaders who is the philosopher, machinery, the great scientist “Missile man of India people’s the President”, the personality of value, ethics and morals, the course  MOVE II gave an opportunity to us to read the biographies of the leaders and find out the MOVE and apply that in our life.

Background

On 15th October 1931 in the mosque street of Rameshwram one of the sacred place of India, in the middle class Tamil Muslim family, in an ancestor’s house,  a boy born, father is Jainulabdeen who is not much educated and mother is Ashiamma, who fed every day to others without any discrimination. In childhood he was the boy among many children but now he is the great asset or personality of the country whom all the children of the nation loves. He started his study with local primary school and he has completed his High school at Ramanathapuram, after completing BSC from St. Joseph’s college Trichy After completing his BSc from St. Joseph’s college Trichy, he joined the Madras Institute of Technology (MIT), for studying Aeronautical Engineering.  From MIT, he went to Hindustan Aeronautics Limited (HAL) at Bangalore as a trainee, later he worked in DRDO in the year 1958 and joined ISRO in 1963. “Missile Man of India” was the Project Director of India’s first indigenous Satellite Launch Vehicle (SLV-III). He played an important role in India’s Pokhran-II nuclear test in 1998, the first since the original nuclear test by India in 1974, he is non-other than APJ. Abdul Kalam.

Motivation

A person’s motivation is came from many forces, sometime from the genetice inheritance, sometimes from the external factors. Like in case of Dr. APJ Abdul kalam also, he has got motivation in his life from the different people from his life.

There are five steps in motivation one of the steps of the motivation, the first on is Awareness, It starts from his family, he born in a cultured family and his father and mother are kind hearted and they are economically not rich but they are rich by heart, this motivates him to live with the people without any discrimination and he himself initiates the action that desire of to do something.

Desired change

In his child hood his relative Ahmed Jallaluddin and his cousin Samsuddin influenced to him to build the desired change in his life, Jalaluddin was 15 years older than him still he was a good friend of him and they both mainly talked about the spiritual things and that motivates to shape the boy as a spiritual minded with his father’s spiritual thinking, the another person Samsuddin, he was the news pare seller, Abdul Kalam learnt from him to become an independent so, he started to sell news pare with him. These all influence the person’s life desirable change.

Role model

In case of Dr. Abdul Kalam he did not mention particularly one person that who is hi role model but throughout his autobiography he mentioned his parents, his relative and his cousin and later the person like Vikram Sarabhai all his models or motivators.

Action

The next step of the motivation is action, here when Abdul Kalam started his hi schooling he did not have much idea about where to go what to do, but when he joined his high school there his teacher guided him and later also he went to outside of his native then he  got the idea about where he has to go, later he jumped into the sector were he wants but it is all about his motivation and action according to it.

Reinforcement

Here the reinforcement or reward is now who is he and what is he? He is a scientist and president and one of the role model of the nation. In life what all are ups and down came in his life then that time he remembered his relative Jalluddin and his fried always, for example once Jalaluddin died then his father motivates him, when his father died he himself motivated by the given words of Jalaluddin.

Following are the motivation and it shows from where he has got

  • Achievement motivation– parents, (desire, belief, and expectation)
  • Affiliation motivation– Childhood friends, Prof. Sarabhai, Prof Brahm Prakash
  • Influence motivation– As a scientist and as president of India
  • Control motivation– after failure of Agni-I missile test failure
  • Extension motivation– MGK Menon, Prof. Sarabhai, large team of brilliant and dedicated professionals
  • Dependence motivation– Prof Sarabhai, Satish Dhawan (Senior scientists at ISRO)

Values

Values are those which are leads to the person to follow certain Values are the rules by which we make decisions about right and wrong, should and shouldn’t, good and bad. They also tell us which are more or less important, which is useful when we have to trade off meeting one value over another.

In other words values are beliefs of a person or social group in which they have an emotional investment (either for or against something); “he has very conservatives values”

There are certain instrumental values which we can apply in our life from the in case of Dr.Abdul Kalam

  • Ambitious (hardworking aspiring) : Since child hood we can see that he is a hard worker and later he works 18 hours a day, it shows that how much he is ambitious
  • Broad-Minded (open minded) : Scientists are always broad minded and they always think about the inventions, innovative idea
  • Capable (competent, effective): Abdul Kalam is able manage his professional life as well as his personal life means, in his work station he is effective himself and with his team.
  • Cheerful (light-hearted, joyful) : In the 80 years old age also he is always seems cheerful, once we see him we will get the motivation like joyful
  • Clean (neat, tidy) : From his personal life to professional, house to work station with the public he is always a clean, neat personality

Courageous (standing up for your beliefs) : Abdu Kalam is himself courageous and a man of integrity , by his quotation  “If you want to shine like a sun, first burn like a sun”, “ What actions are most excellent?

To gladden the heart of a human being, to feed the hungry, to help the affected, to lighten the sorrow of the sorrow full and remove the wrongs of injured.

  • Forgiving (willing to pardon others)
  • Helpful (working for the welfare of others)
  • Honest (sincere, truthful)
  • Imaginative (during creative) : he is a scientist so, this quality is with him always.
  • Independent (self-reliant self-sufficient) : Since his child hood he started to earn by selling newspaper, it shows that he is an independent.
  • Intellectual (intelligent, reflective)
  • Logical (consistent, rational)

“I inherited honesty and self-discipline from my father and from my mother, I inherited faith in goodness and deep kindness from sisters & brothers”

  • Practicing vegetarianism
  • Patriotism
  • Secularism

The above sentence of the DR.Kalam explains that the following all values he has and he is following in his life.

  • Loving (affectionate, tender)
  • Obedient (dutiful respectful)
  • Polite (courteous well-mannered)
  • Responsible (dependable, reliable)
  • Self-controlled (restrained, self- disciplined)

As above there are certain terminal values which we could apply in from the Dr.Kalam’s life

  • A comfortable life (a prosperous life) : He prefers simple lifestyle and he is comfortable with that
  • A sense of accomplishment (lasting contribution): He contributed his life for the nation
  • A world at peace (free of war and conflict) : He always avoid conflict, sometimes while working in the office with satellite he faced many criticism still he is able to manage it.
  • A World at Beauty (beauty of nature and the arts)
  • Equality (brotherhood equal opportunity for all) : In his team he always maintain a equality and since his childhood he lived with all caste of people so, he applied equality in his life.
  • Family Security (taking care of loved ones) : In his family he is good son, when his father was ill, he used take the special doctor to their home, he used take care of his family members always.
  • Freedom (independence free choice) : His parents thought that he should become a collector but his interest was different, then also he had a freedom to go which he likes.
  • Happiness (contentedness) : “We should not give up and we should not allow the problem to defeat us” this line says that whatever problem comes we have to face it happily then only we will become happiness, this has said by Dr.Kalam
  • Inner Harmony (freedom from inner conflict)
  • Nature and Love (spiritual intimacy) : Dr. Kalam has got a spiritual values from his parents.
  • National Security (protection from attack) : He always dreamt India in an developed country, in his book vision 2020 he narrates that in the year of 2020 how India should be.
  • Pleasure (an enjoyable, leisurely life) : He never went behind the leisurely life, it came to according to the situation
  • Salvation (saved, eternal life)
  • Social Recognition (respect, admiration) : He did not run behind the recognition, according his achievement and contribution it came to him so, he is become one of the great leader of India
  • Self-Respect (self-esteem)
  • True Friendship (close companionship) : “ If we are not free no one will respect us”, this shows that he is giving the time to others and with his team and surroundings he is a good friend, to the children he is best friend.
  • Wisdom (a mature understanding of life): His wordings like “ to succeed in your mission, you must have single-minded devotion to your goal”, he further says that “your willingness to use your own inner resources to invest your life, especially your imagination, will bring you success, when you undertake a task from your own individual standpoint, you will become a person”, this shows that he is the man who understood the wisdom.

Ethics

“Ethics is the study of individual and collective moral awareness, judgment, character and conduct”

“Ethics are thus internally defined and adopted, whilst morals tend to be externally imposed on other people’.

There are many theories in ethics like Deontological which is based upon duty to do the right thing at all time, clearly defined right and wrong and look at the action.

The another one is Teleological which explains Based upon the consequences Utilitarian (greatest good to greatest number), Right / wrong is relative, in case of Dr Kalam the Deontological theory we could see as he explained his autobiography ‘Wings of fire’.

In APJ Abdul Kalam Virtue Ethics Theory is more functional, virtue ethics theory means habitual development of sound character’s traits determines the value of person.

  • Individual characters ethics- Gratitude, courage, self-discipline, reliability, kindness, caring, and sincerity.
  • Work characters ethics- Honesty, creativity, trustworthy, co-worker appreciation, task competition, empathy, cooperativeness, supportiveness, and tolerance.
  • Professional character ethics- Self-regulation, trust, independence of judgement, collegiality, and impartiality.
  • Imbibe of learning
  • Total commitment is not just hard work, it is total involvement.
  • To succeed in your mission, you must have single-minded devotion to your goal. Individuals like me are often called workaholics.
  • To put the heart and soul into the mission.
  • Your willingness to use your inner resources to invest your life, especially your imagination, will bring you success.

Above are the ethics which we can imbibe from the Dr. Kalam’s life, he himself said that he is not a philosopher, he is a man of technology but for me he his man of integrity means what he say that he does, he is philosopher also at the same time technical man also because he is following the above ethics, values which are all the success philosophy behind the technical man.

“Motivational sources should lie within yourself then no one can stop you from achieving your goal”        “We should not give up and we should not allow the problem to defeat us”

Above sentences said by Dr.Kalam which influenced me a lot and I remember it in my life always.

 

 

 

 

A little spark to think towards youths and farming…

In the book ‘Everybody Loves A Good Drought’, P. Sainath says “poverty line provides conceptual rationalization for looking at the poor as a ‘category’ to be taken care of. It does not take into account important aspects of poverty such as ill health, low educational attainments, geographical isolation, ineffective access to law, powerlessness in civil society and caste and gender based disadvantages.”

My dear son, as we are become old and we cannot go to field as previous so now it is the time to handover our work to you, you please take care our 15 acre land and we wish every year you should get good yield”. The reply of the son is  “ father as you know now all my friends are going to city to earn and some of my friends are enjoying their life in city, In this village what can I get? always going to field and farming then I should wait for crop yield and finally I can get yearly income that to not reasonable profits for our crop so I am also thinking of move from here by selling this to nearby Industrialist, you can also come with me after when I will get settled their or otherwise you can live here with labour”. One day I was going to college in that time I heard this conversation of one the families in the village, suddenly I stopped their itself and my mind started to think present scenario of rural youth , farming and migration.

The rural youths are the group which consist the half of the world’s youth’s population and they are the people who are most effected by poverty. Whereas agriculture is the backbone of the India as you know, the agricultural workforce is estimated to be 286 million in 2010; it is decreased to 234 million in 2001. But the percentage of total workforce engaged in agriculture has fallen from 58% in 2001 to 55% in 2010. At the same time, the contribution of agriculture to GDP fell from 23.2% to 17.7%. Despite a bigger workforce in agriculture, the contribution of agriculture in the Indian economic growth is less. But when we see in the rural area in farming activities most of the population is old age people. Where are the youths? They are migrating to the city .But why? They have limited access to the education health and also job opportunities also. In a country with 600 million farmers, in this 40 present are willing to leave farming.  First they went for education, and once completion of education they got good job and city life attracting to them so there is no question of return back to village and continue farming. From the beginning itself farmers facing so many problems, at present labour problem is the one of the major problems. lack of labours, In farming physical work is more and income is yearly and also it is depend upon the nature, so youths wants modern life and good quick income that is why they are settling in city. I agree but just think of future!! Who will produce the food? Up course the modernisation and globalisation are effected on agriculture positively, I agree with that but more than it has affected negatively.

I would like to give one example: Nearby my village, One family with having father mother and son. They are the one of the richest family in that village with 7 acre arecanut plantation land. It gives around 7,00,000 income to them, but now his son is studying MCA in Bangalore he is not ready to do farming and father and mother become old and they cannot do farming as they were doing early so now their half of the yield declining.

In case of small and marginal farmers they are selling their land and they are migrating to urban for seeking another occupation. But now a day nobody is ready to purchase agriculture land. Even if somebody will purchase then they will not use for farming. Government and so many NGO’s are implementing many programs and technologies to promote agriculture and allied activities but in rural area most of the youths are not there in this case a most of the farmers illiterate and now they are not able to do much work and they do not know how to use modern technology if they know then also they cannot work with this efficiently.

I am not saying that turning of youth’s mentality towards modern easy life is totally wrong but at the same time they should take care of their parents occupation and youths can bring change in the system so when they think about their own life in that time they should think about society also why because farmer is the food provider without him rest all are nil, for the balance of the system and sustainability of the agriculture youths take important role and they must realise it. If farmers are not there then what you will eat? You have good job enough money but where is the food? In some extent you can import from other countries but developing countries like India it always possible and what about the poor people? While talking about equality as a development professional, new economic policies, Modernisation and Liberalisation, Globalisation are for implemented to develop a county but if it is not taking care of the poor or marginalised people then how India would become a developed country? Here I am putting set of questions because as we are youth we should think of it.

 Reference

One of the assignments which I like most..

Because I am a Girl…? !

“Oh why are you so happy? Why are you distributing sweets to all?

Yes, I am so happy because my wife gave birth to a child.

Good news, but this is you second child right? After having first child you did not give any sweets, then why you are giving now?

That is the matter, first was a girl child, now we have got a boy so, we are happier than that!!

“Please do not beat me, this is not my mistake and do not do anything harm to my child, she is innocent, that is god’s decision”. But husband was beating her because she gave a birth to girl child and that was third child he was expecting boy. These are all the very common practices going on around us. Why? If we ask the reason then we will get the only one answer is “because she is the girl”. Like this, before step in to the earth itself a girl is unwanted thing. The ‘Veda, Purana says that “Yatra naryantu pujyate ramante tatra devetaha” means where there is a women there is a existence of goddess and mother is a god, earth is a god. But at the same time the same  Veda, Puranas says if a  family does not has boy or son then that family will not get Mukti or  salvation!

Do not think as this issue is new. It is existing from long back and still continuing. Our great father of the nation Mahatma Gandhi said that “In India when a girl can walk around outside the house alone and if she will come back to home safely then that day is the real Independence day for all”. We know the problem but we are not excepting it and we are not thinking to come out of it. Then where is the problem? What is the problem?

The Girl is the problem. She is burden to her parents, after marriage if she will not give birth to girl child then again she is the problem for family, In olden age she is the burden for son or daughter in law! In the language of commerce girl is an asset or liability? It seems people are treating her as a liability. This is not an assumption, we are experiencing daily. UN figure out that about 7,50,000 girl Children are aborted in India every year. The sex ratio in India is 940 females for every 1000 males. The infant mortality rate is 46.18 comparing to 49.14 per 1000.

 “How sad, many girls missing from our country are found buried in some graveyard.. Yes this is because she is a girl. Where the son is growing in a family with lots of love and care, another side girl thrown in the dust bin! Is it justice? Is it equality? Is it development? No. But it is true that parents are preferring sex relative abortion, here if a mother does not wants to do that then also because of family pressure she should agree with that.

“I am interested in study, I am a rank student also but, my parents did my marriage when I was in 16 years old, because they did not offer dowry from my parents so my parents agreed to do my marriage only because I am a girl and they cannot keep me and I am a liability to them. You know why that family did not ask dowry? because this is second marriage for him and he has two children already , for them they need one care taker , so here I am just like a one character where I cannot express my feelings, my needs only I have to work as a labour in that family.” This one of the story of women that I met in during my first fieldwork.

This is not the new issue, but I want to say is women or a girl has not that much freedom to live according to her choice and wish. She should live always with some rigid restrictions. In case of girl from poor family her life is decided by somebody else, having male child is the kind of status or security for future and having girl is just like a feeding of neibhour’e plants because anyway she has to go her husband’s house.

The technology is curse for the girl as since 1970s the technology came for testing and sex-selective abortion by using biopsy, ultrasound, scan test etc. In rural area it has not reached much but they will kill the baby after birth. An educated person also doing the same thing means here where is the awareness. Parents will think about future, whether son will take care of them or not but they want to have son. But we can see the girls are also taking care of their parents. Female feticide and infanticide is not the only issues with a girl, she has a problem in each stage of the life. In childhood while her brother is having good clothes, shoes and books in his hand but in girl’s hand broomstick, wiper, after that brother is going to school, she has to ready for getting marriage. Again she should ready for facing harassment from husband and family in case if she will not give birth to the girl. This is the situation in most of the families. Whereas in India the sex ration is high only in Kerala, rest all places girls are negligible things.

“Women are victims of a dominant family    ideology   based on preference for male children” this statement is quite impressed me ant it is taken by the article “The Girl child in India” written by Malavika Karleka really the violence against girl child begins even before they are born, foeticide being a case in point. The gender discrimination is quite common.  Women are considering as a second citizen in India. This problem is not only in India, almost all developing and under developed countries has this problem. For example in Pakistan and Afghanistan women cannot walk out outside the house without any men or husband, she should cover herself always with cloth she should not show her face to other. So caste by caste also the restriction varies but the girl is suffering ultimately.

In India culture matters, till here many policies came then also the preference to the son exists, it means it is an attitude of the people. The social status of the girl is low so it will result to low economic status also. She should take care of household work, even she has very good talents, creativities in some case good qualification also but after marriage family restrict to go outside and to do work.

In India the feudal system is very common, means the property of the family goes to son after father. The girls who all are abandoning by the house they will become street children or they will become sex workers sometimes they will go for crime. So childhood is the time like a wet mud, It depends on how we are giving the shape to it. The gender ide in South Asia takes in many forms, If parents could not do the sex-selective abortion and they have girl child then the girl become a labour for the family and because of negligence she may become malnutricious and trafficking, dowry deaths, domestic violence, child labour etc. are expected things for a girl. If we take the country the largest population in the world, China there also we can see the same problem with a girl like India. But the only one difference is there now Government family planning policy matters in India the culture matters the most. Per 100 girls born 164 boys in China. In the year of 1978 they adopted the Policy of “ One child per family” , first of all they would like to have a boy so there is an option of to have only one child per family then the policy force then to go for gender test of the child in the time of the pregnancy, so here the Government policy itself negatively effecting to the girl, because to have a girl child is not mandatory and also there is only one option , culture also matters to give first preference to son, any way girl is neglecting. Comparing to the situation of China and India, the China is quite flexible to prevent it but in India it is difficult than China.

It is true that girl is facing problem in every stage of her life, Then who is the responsible? Parents? Society? Policies? Or culture? No, here there is no only one factor is reason. Society as whole is responsible, today 200 million girls are missing in the world means the problem is remaining same. The development of the Country also not possible with only men the contribution of the women also equally important.

One study made in 2005 estimated that around 90 million females were missing in Bangladesh, Afghanistan, China, Pakistan, South Korea and Taiwan and India, the sex-selective abortion is taking major part. India’s census of 2011 says that there is a serious decline in the number of girls under the age of seven.

“Her marriage is not fixing, parents are trying to do her marriage and they are thinking if daughter will cross the age of marriage then they have to give more and more dowry that they cannot offer. But do you know why boys are rejecting her? Because she was working in a call centre to meet her parents financial needs!” this shows pretty silly thing but people commonly has a bad impression on girls those who are working in a call centre, just think to a girl every step there is a challenge. You cannot go far away from home and you should not go for any night duty jobs, you should take care of your siblings, yes I cannot go alone for to have a higher education which is available far away from my home, I have interested to do dance but society has not allow me to go for different programs, I wanted to join army but my parents do not allow me, They do not ask me about my choice for marriage, My husband will not ask anything to me while taking any decision in home, my husband’s parents hates me because I have three girl child, I cannot stay alone in any strange place, I cannot do any holy kind of things up to getting marriage etc. etc. I cannot, I should not or you cannot, you should not.. Because I am a girl, yes because you are a girl!!  These are all common echoes we can hear daily. But when it will take end? Atleast we should start from our home to provide equal opportunity to girl except killing the baby child.

Can we hear these kinds of statements from boys?  No.. we cannot. Because they are boys. So, let us be a good mother , good father, good husband, let us create a better society equal status for a girl , let us try to bring a situation where Mother Theresa, Kiran bedi, Indira Gandhi , Kalpana Chawla kept their name in a world history and we should proudly say that because they are also girl. More than this everyone should understand girl is also a human being, she is also has heart, feelings, choice, freedom, talent, goal, potential , but we are talking about equality, development without considering these things then we are not eligible to do that.

(Reference: Adam Jones. (2010, February). Genderside watch. Retrieved from     http://www.gendercide.org/gwmain.html

http://www.domesticviolenceservices.com/female-infanticide.htm)